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How To Interact With Girls, Anytime, Anywhere
A week ago, I was answering a question about how you can meet ladies, anytime, anywhere. I had so much to say on the subject, I had to continue it on to this week's issue. So again, the question being discussed is, "what are some excellent and easy ways to meet ladies?"
Rule #1: Get yourself within the right frame of mind well before you walk out the door!
Understanding that enables you to also see the single biggest and most common mistake guys make when it comes to meeting females: They're relying on the ladies accepting them to make them feel great instead of walking up to women with a good feeling first!
One excellent way to do this would be to make sure you have a life going on with things you enjoy, besides females.
Invest in hobbies, discover things you love, be sure you get adequate rest, and take care of your diet and physical well being.
Rule #2: Consider and USE the environment of the situation in which you find yourself.
For example, when I'm outside, I merely wait for a good looking young lady to come jogging, blading or biking towards my stationary position. I then jump out, hold out my hand and in my most authoritative tone yell: Stop! (This is really pretty funny to watch. I have never ever had them NOT stop!)
I then say, "If you are that easily stopped, you need a boyfriend who will motivate you! My name is Ross". Now, at this point, I bring into play...
Rule #3: Verbally Pace the Continuing Scenario
Basically, verbally describe and consequently ACKNOWLEDGE the situation and reality that she finds herself in with you. Within the example above, where I've just leaped in her path and yelled "STOP", what do you imagine this girl is thinking?
It's a safe bet it is something along the lines of "this dude is nuts"! So I better USE that rather than ignoring it.
I say, "Look I know this is a completely nutty way to meet someone, but I knew if I failed to do something to stop you, we'd never get an opportunity to talk and perhaps see how much WE COULD REALLY LIKE EACH OTHER."
BY DEMONSTRATING UNDERSTANDING, YOU INCREASE RAPPORT!
Let's say you're going to meet females in a coffee house or restaurant, two of my favorite locations.
As an example, when I go to the Coffee Bean and Tea Leaf, which has a lot of branches here in LA., I often look for the seat in the place that will give me the best view of anybody who walks through the door. This means I can see anyone who's standing in line, and make eye contact with them for a sustained time period.
If you're sitting in a restaurant, sit at the bar at a spot near the take out order spot, if you can and if they have one.
At a party, the best spot to hang out is right next to the bathroom. Females have notoriously small bladders when they're drinking a lot, and almost every girl there is going to need to get into your space sooner or later.
OK, that is it for now. Look for the next issue by searching: guygetsgirl, guy gets girl, or guy gets girl book. I will continue on this theme of the best way to meet females, anytime, anywhere, USING YOUR SENSE OF HUMOR!
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